Q&A: Answering all of your questions !

Career, Love and Mindset we answer all your questions.

CAREER

I’m starting a small business and I’m nervous about just going for it thoughts ?

Karen: Don’t overthink it—just start. Whatever you’re working on, don’t let perfectionism hold you back. It will never feel “perfect enough,” and in the imaginary world of planning, you’ll never have “enough” funds. The real magic happens when you take action.

Once you start, you’ll actually see what your clients need, how they respond, and where your money and energy should go. If you do have funds, don’t use everything in at once. Use just 15% to get things going and save the rest. You’ll only truly understand where to invest once you’ve got a few months of experience running your business.

Start small. Stay curious. Be willing to learn about every part of your business. And most importantly enjoy the ride!

Lisa: Kicking off a new project is always a mix of excitement and fear. At some point, you just have to go for it, there’s no such thing as "perfect," and you’ll change things along the way. Like Pia Mance said in a podcast, "It’s better done than perfect." Right before launching, it always feels like it’s not quite ready, but the truth is, you’ll never feel 100% ready. And honestly, you’ll never regret going for something that’s been on your mind for so long!

Hardest part about growing Twin Flame ?

Karen: Honestly, the hardest part for me is having such a clear vision for the brand and all the pieces we want to create but not yet having the funds to bring it all to life. It’s so frustrating, but I know it’s part of the process!

Lisa: I think the hardest part, like Karen said, is definitely the financial limitations. But I’d also add the whole planning side of things, especially when you’re working with different parties and have to coordinate suppliers and manufacturers.

How did you both start modeling ?

Karen: It all started when I moved to Paris for university. I kept getting stopped in the street by photographers who wanted to shoot with me, so I went for it. One of them told me I should send my profile to agencies because I had potential, and at the same time, a friend from my internship was really pushing me to go for it. One morning, she came over and took some polaroid-style pictures of me.

I sent my photos to every agency in Paris by email, followed up with calls, and booked appointments with the ones that hadn’t responded to my emails. It was a long process because when you’re new and have no experience, you really have to convince an agency to take a chance on you.

Eventually, I signed with a small agency and worked with them throughout my studies. When I graduated, I signed with a bigger agency, and I’ve been working with them ever since!

Lisa: I started modeling in 2021 after Karen hinted to the agency that I looked a lot like her and that they should meet me. I remember thinking it could be such an amazing experience, but I was also scared I wouldn’t fit their standards. Turns out, by the end of the appointment, they told me they wanted to sign me.

How to grow your social media/ start vlogging ? How do you stay inspired to post regularly on various media ?

Karen: My one and only advice: do whatever you want. It has to come from a place of authenticity. We all have our own unique DNA, which means we all have our own way of sharing what we love. It’s totally normal to get inspired by others, but don’t fall into the trap of copying, what makes the difference is that little je ne sais quoi that’s uniquely you.

I hear way too often, "What should I do for the algorithm?" but that’s the wrong mindset. The algorithm picks up on what people genuinely enjoy, so instead, ask yourself: Will people connect with what I’m sharing? Will they engage with it? Think of your content as something valuable, almost like a gift to your audience.

At the end of the day, social media is about connection, not just showing things off. So focus on finding your way to truly connect with others.

Lisa: I’ve wanted to start vlogging since I was a teenager as I used to love watching YouTube videos. I even asked for a filming camera but never had the courage to actually post anything. Looking back, I think it just wasn’t the right time.

At some point, I had a mindset shift. I realized I needed to stop worrying about what people would think about me filming myself and just do it for me. I figured that some of the things I was filming might actually interest someone. I didn’t know how to edit, and filming in public felt intimidating, but I knew I’d learn and grow with time.

When it comes to staying inspired and growing on social media, I think the most important thing is to stay true to yourself and what you love, that’s what makes you stand out. I don’t post all the time because I’d rather focus on quality over quantity. I want my content to actually be interesting for you guys!

FASHION

How did you find your style and never fall out of it ?

Lisa: I wouldn’t say I have a specific "style," but I definitely know the types of pieces I’ll love and keep for a long time. I try to keep that in mind when I shop. I’m all about black and neutral colors, and when it comes to nighttime, I usually gravitate toward something with a sexy cut.

Karen: I think it’s totally normal to experiment with your style. I come from a generation where we didn’t have as much inspo from Instagram or Pinterest like you do today. So I just wore what made me feel good without really paying attention to trends, we weren’t as exposed to them as we are now.

These days, to refine my style and decide what pieces I want to invest in, I look at a lot of inspiration on Instagram and Pinterest. I screenshot outfits I love and keep a folder of looks, either to recreate them with pieces I already own or to buy key items that will help me achieve a similar vibe.

To stay true to your personal style, the best thing you can do is wear what makes you feel good and confident. I get that with all the options out there it can feel overwhelming but play around with it until you find what feels right for you. Style isn’t just about how something looks—it’s about how it makes you feel. It’s the attitude that makes the outfit.

Which famous ladies are yours inspiration for your style ?

Lisa: Here are some of my faves, I always check their Instagram for the best outfit inspo: Rosie Huntington-Whiteley, Pia Mance, Elsa Hosk, and Sara Walker.

Karen: If I could raid anyone’s closet, it would definitely be RHW. Her style is always impeccable, timeless and effortless yet so put together. She nails that perfect balance of chic and comfortable, always with a subtle sexy touch. Absolutely love her style!

LOVE & FRIENDSHIPS

How do you manage to keep adult friendship alive ?

Lisa: It feels so weird going from spending all your time with friends in university to working and being in a relationship, it’s hard to balance everything. But I had to learn that the reality is, I just don’t have the time to see my friends all the time like before. Now, I actually have to plan meet-ups! But it’s kinda fun too because it makes me more intentional about spending time with them. I’ve also realized it’s nice to switch things up, like doing something you’d normally do alone but with a friend, like a workout class or grabbing lunch in between work.

Karen: The only way to keep adult friendships alive is to actually make the time to see your friends. I know life gets busy, especially as we get older, but as I always say: we’re never too busy, it’s just a matter of priorities. So make it a priority! Add it to your to-do list every month to plan something with your friends. And don’t overthink it, sometimes we feel like we need a whole day to catch up, but even a quick one-hour coffee chat can be enough.

Now, if you’re trying to make new friends, treat it like dating. You have to put yourself out there and literally ask someone to hang out. And just like dating, sometimes you’ll click, and sometimes you won’t and that’s fine! I had to learn this the hard way when I moved to another country. I was so used to having my close friends that making new ones as an adult felt so weird. At first, I thought I had to be friends with everyone I met, but I quickly realized that’s not how it works. You’re not going to vibe with everyone, and that’s okay!

Suggestions for someone in a relationship on how she/he can become more independent from their partner ?

Karen: I don’t know what your dynamic is, but here’s what I always say—missing each other in a relationship is a luxury. That’s why time apart is so important. It doesn’t have to be long, just a dinner with your friends or a weekend with your family. Make sure you’re spending time with them alone because the dynamic is never the same when your partner is around.

Treat your friendships and family relationships as if you were still single. When we’re in a relationship, we tend to spend most of our time with our partner and not enough with others, which is dangerous in the long run. Your friends and family also need love and attention, and neglecting them can hurt both those relationships and your relationship with your partner.

If you want to be more independent, always make sure to have your own activities and hobbies. And if you’re talking about financial independence, that’s simple—always have your own thing going on, career-wise.

But ultimately, everything comes down to boundaries. The health of your relationship in the long run is determined right from the start. Setting boundaries is normal, and if someone doesn’t respect them, they’re probably not the right match. I had to learn this the hard way—at first, when you’re in love, you accept things you shouldn’t, and later, you regret it. It’s tough because there’s always that fear of “What if I lose them because of my boundaries?” But the truth is, if they leave, they were never the right person for you. There’s no point in staying with someone who doesn’t respect your standards.

Lisa: I think this is so important, you can’t be fully dependent on your partner!! First off, let’s talk about finances. You and your partner probably won’t make the exact same amount of money, and that’s totally fine. What really matters is having financial freedom to do what you want, when you want. Also, have your own hobbies! That doesn’t mean you can’t share hobbies with your partner, but it’s good to keep some things just for yourself. And of course, have your own group of friends, sometimes you just need to vent about your relationship, and it’s nice to have friends who truly know you and won’t go spilling everything.

Three most important things for you girls about a man ?

Lisa: For me, one of the biggest things I look for in a man is that he’s caring : someone who’s kind and willing to go out of his way for you. Loyalty is huge too because you need to feel secure in your relationship, not sitting around wondering what he’s doing or who he’s with. A loyal man shows it through his actions. I also love a man who’s ambitious, it’s so attractive when someone has goals and drive. And lastly ( I know it’s more than 3), he’s gotta be funny!! I love to laugh, and I think it’s so important to be able to joke around and have fun with your partner.

Karen: Trustworthy, Great sense of humor, Has his life together & Positive mindset!

SISTERSHIP

What’s your favorite thing to do when you are together ?

Lisa: I love hanging out with Karen!! We have the same interests, but honestly, my favorite thing to do with her is just talk! She always motivates me to do better and knows exactly how to put me in a good mood.

Some of our favorite things to do together: grabbing a coffee, going out for dinner, taking a Pilates class, shopping, or just chilling at home. Even something as simple as showing each other TikToks or reels we saved for one another is always fun!

Karen: Honestly, it’s never about what you do, but who you do it with. And Lisa is that person for me, no matter what we’re doing, we always have the best time!

Have you two ever fought like most other siblings do?

Lisa: Of course, we fight with Karen I mean not physically lol but we argue from time to time but what’s different from arguing with anyone else is that we will usually make up really quickly and forget about the argument.

Karen: We argue of course but it never lasts long ! We always end up laughing at the ridiculous things we said when we were mad. Growing up, whenever we fought, our mom would always make us apologize and remind us: “Your sister is the best friend you’ll ever have, you need to cherish this relationship.” And honestly? She was right.

MINDSET

How to be consistent & find motivation to workout ?

Lisa: Let’s be real, I’m not always motivated to work out. There are definitely days when I just don’t feel like it. But here are a few tips that help me push through:

• Find a workout you love: This is a total game changer! Once you find the right one, you’ll start craving those workouts.

• Have a plan: Scheduling classes or workouts helps keep you accountable, and you’re less likely to skip out. That said, there will still be days when you don’t feel like it, and that’s totally fine. You can always adjust—maybe do a shorter session or something more low-impact. What matters most is showing up for yourself.

• Remember how good you feel after: Consistency is key, and focusing on how great you’ll feel after the workout can help keep you going. I’ve never regretted a workout—I always feel proud of myself for showing up, and I try to remember that when motivation is low.

• Keep your goals in mind: If you want to reach your goals, discipline is everything. You won’t see results after just one session—you need to stay consistent.

• Showing up for yourself = self-love: I also remind myself that working out is one of the best things I can do for my body. I’m grateful that I’m able to move, so I give it my all! It’s all about self-love.

Karen: Staying consistent and motivated all comes down to one thing: actually enjoying your workouts! You’ve got to find the kind of exercise that makes you want to show up. Personally, I love B The Method by Lia Bartha and Move with Nicole on Youtube. And beyond that, you need to know why you’re working out. For me, it’s not just for how I feel now, but also for the version of me 20 years from now. At the end of the day, taking care of your body is one of the best forms of self-love.

One advice you have for life in general?

Karen: Surround yourself with the right people—because who you keep around you can make you or break you. Energy is real, and the people in your life will influence you. Choose the ones who lift you up, who make you feel good every time you see them.

The right people can help you move mountains, push you toward your dreams, and be the light when you’re feeling low. They’re the ones you can confide in, rain or shine. And honestly? You don’t need a lot—just the right ones

Lisa: There’s one quote that always sticks with me. I remember learning it in high school during an English class when our teacher made us watch Steve Jobs Stanford commencement speech. He said: "You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backward. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future."

Basically, life doesn’t always go as planned, and that’s just how it is. In the moment, it might not seem like a good thing, but later, you might realize it was actually for the best.

For example, after high school, I applied to three different universities—one in New York, one in London, and my last choice was in Paris. When I didn’t get into my top choices, I was heartbroken. But looking back, I’m so happy I ended up in Paris. Maybe if I had gone to NY or London, I wouldn’t have become a model or started a company with my sister. At the time, I was so upset, but now I see it was actually a blessing.

When you hit a creative block what are your go to methods for getting unstuck ?

Karen: First of all, it’s so important to acknowledge that everyone goes through creative blocks, and that’s okay. The first step is to be kind to yourself and remember that even the most successful creative directors in the world have admitted they’re not creative all the time.

When I don’t feel creative, I stop. I take a step back and give myself permission to take a break. It’s so much better to disconnect for a few days than to drag that stuck feeling around for weeks. I refresh my mind by doing things I love, without forcing creativity to come back.

Then, I turn to the things that inspire me—watching, reading, or looking at content that sparks something new in me. Inspiration is everywhere, and sometimes, all it takes is the right moment to reignite it.

I remind myself that just like nature, we move in seasons. Our minds and bodies go through cycles, and it’s normal to have moments where we feel stuck, unmotivated, or uninspired. Instead of forcing creativity, I let myself sit with the feeling and try to understand why it’s there. My therapist always told me that these moments of pause often bring the biggest realizations.

And finally, I have a simple mantra that I repeat to myself: “My creativity knows no limits.” I say it over and over because rewiring your brain to believe in your creativity is way more powerful than sitting in fear or frustration. Creativity always comes back—you just have to trust it.

Lisa: I’d say the first thing you need to do is take a pause and step back. You won’t get anywhere if you’re just forcing it. Then, try to figure out why you’re feeling stuck. After that, do things that can spark your creativity—something you haven’t done in a while, just for you, with no pressure to be productive or achieve anything. And then, make a plan. Planning always helps you see things more clearly and get out of a rut.

Do you always feel positive ? How do you deal with negative feelings?

Karen: I don’t always feel positive, but I do my best to see things from a positive perspective—there’s a big difference. I think it’s completely normal to not feel positive or motivated all the time. What really makes a difference is the outlook you choose to have on life. Life is like yin and yang, there’s always a balance of good and bad. So even in tough situations, I try to take a step back and find something positive in it, no matter how difficult it seems. There’s always something to learn or take away from every experience.

Being positive doesn’t come naturally to our brains; we’re wired to focus on danger and negativity. That’s why it takes practice: train yourself to see the good in situations and be mindful of how you talk to yourself. Negative self-talk can be so sneaky, and we don’t always realize how much we do it, so it’s important to be aware of that.

I have a hard time talking about « negative feelings » because I don’t believe any feeling is truly « negative ». Emotions exist for a reason, and instead of pushing them away, I try to lean into them and understand what they’re telling me. When I’m feeling low, journaling helps me a lot. I write everything out, then go back the next day and read what I wrote. It’s interesting to see how my thoughts shift from day to day. And sometimes, the best thing you can do is simply let go.

Lisa: Let’s be real, you can’t be positive all the time, and that’s totally fine. Life has its ups and downs, but I do have a few things that help when I’m feeling low:

• Practice gratitude: Noticing the good things in your life can help pull you out of negative thoughts.

• Put things into perspective: There’s always a solution to a problem, so ask yourself if it’s really worth all that energy.

• Try to understand where those negative feelings are coming from: Ask yourself what’s causing them and what you can change to feel more positive.

• Surround yourself with positive people—especially ones you can talk to easily: This is a big one. Being able to express how you feel and getting a friend’s perspective can make a huge difference.

For example, I know that whenever I’m feeling down, Karen always knows exactly what to say to lift my mood!

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Bisous, Bisous,

Karen & Lisa